Ask them. Directly. To their face. That's what I always do. For years, I knew the fetishes, kinks, cock size, homosexual experiences and the number of sexual partners a guy had long before I had conscious thoughts of fucking them. But I'm not timid about sex, and I haven't had sex with people who were.
But for those who are less bold, there are forms one can fill out. Seriously. And they're good. MojoUpgrade: This is a really helpful internet quiz designed to help couples discover their sexual compatibility. And, their incompatibility. Or just to discover what you’re into. Lord Ristretto and I took this together and, funnily enough, that there were things we wanted to do but hadn't mentioned to the other. No matter how much communication a couple has, you can't remember EVERYTHING to talk about. Fetishes And Limits: I found this on the /r/sex subreddit, created by /u/simontog. It's essentially the same thing as mojoupgrade, but in a more straightforward, printable form. Could be used as a party game or a drinking game. Here's a sample: Here’s the scale: 1 - Very much into / Something I enjoy / Turn On 2 - Haven’t done it but want to try 3 - I would do it if the other person enjoyed it 4 - Does nothing for me, but isn’t a limit 5 - Hard limit / Something I won’t do / Turn off Role Playing _______ Age Play (you play younger) _______ Animal Roles (e.g. human puppy dog) _______ Examinations (doctor-nurse play/medical scenes) _______ Family Play (e.g. Incest Play) _______ Daddy/little girl (DD/lg) _______ Fantasy Abandonment _______ Fantasy Rape _______ Interrogations _______ Kidnapping _______ Prison Scenes _______ Prostitution (being sold to others) _______ Pony play (e.g. pony girl) _______ Religious Play (nun/priest/rabbi/alterboy-girl) Sexual Play _______ Anal Play/Anal Sex _______ Anal Plugs/Beads _______ Anal Plugs/Beads Outdoors (under clothes) _______ Bestiality _______ Brown Showers (scat) _______ Camming Sex with me _______ Camming Sex with me and others _______ Creampies _______ Cyber Sex with me (no cam) _______ Cyber Sex with me and others (no cam) _______ Dildos _______ Double Penetration with dildos _______ Double Penetration with two men _______ Fisting (anal) _______ Fisting (vaginal) _______ Food Play _______ Forced Heterosexuality (being used by friends) _______ Forced Heterosexuality (being used by strangers, with protection) _______ Forced Homosexuality (being used by friends) _______ Forced Homosexuality (being used by strangers) _______ Gang Bang _______ Genital Sex _______ Glory-Hole Sex _______ Golden Showers _______ Lactation (giving) _______ Lactation (receiving) _______ Licking (body homage with tongue) _______ Menstruation (sex during) _______ Oral-Anal Play (rimming, receiving) _______ Oral-Anal Play (doing to another) _______ Phone Sex _______ Photos on demand (e.g., via text messenger during the day) _______ Sex (Heterosexual) _______ Sex (Homosexual) _______ Sexual Deprivation _______ Strap-Ons (receiving) _______ Strap-Ons (wearing/giving) _______ Swapping (being given) _______ Swinging (one or more other couples) _______ Swallowing (cum) _______ Talking Dirty (Talker) _______ Talking Dirty (Talkee) _______ Tickling _______ Vibrators _______ Wrestling
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I was browsing/answering posts on the subreddit /r/sex this afternoon, and found one about threesomes: Best Way To Get Into A Threesome. Here is the advice I gave, and, yes, it's based upon personal experience.
1). Don't push it. They happen naturally. When you try to force the situation, it brings a creep vibe that kills the mood. 2) It will happen with friends of yours who are openminded sexually. They might not have said they want a threesome, but they could be flirty or like talking about sex. (Talking about sex is a great way to eventually have sex) 3). Drink alcohol. It lowers everyone's inhibitions and removes responsibility (apparently). 4). Be brave. Threesomes always require that person (when the time is right) to be willing to do the one thing that will take everyone past the point of no return. Be that person. If you find my perverted curiosity interesting, read my book!!! DYING IN PLEASURE |
Subscribe to this blog at Feedburner:AuthorI've been extraordinarily open minded about sex ever since my first year in college, when I learned women could have orgasms. (I was a late bloomer in high school.) Nothing shocks me. All of it interests me. I can never get enough of it. All of the pics in my blog are stolen/borrowed from other websites. I consider myself not really a thief, but a pirate. Arrrrrrr!!!
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